Sinners

Swingerlifestyle Questions, Answered Plainly

New to the lifestyle or switching from an older swinger site? These are the questions couples and singles ask us most, with straight answers about how Sinners works.

Accounts and verification

Who can join Sinners?

Consenting adults aged 18 and over: couples (MF, FF, MM), single women, single men, groups and ethically non monogamous people. Hosts, clubs and resorts join with the Host plan.

How does verification work?

You upload a photo of a government ID and take a live selfie in the app. We check that you are an adult and that the face matches. The verified badge appears on your profile once the check passes.

Do both partners of a couple verify?

Yes. A couple profile gets the verified badge only when both partners have passed the check. That is how you know the couple you message is the couple you meet.

Is my ID visible to other members?

No. Members see the verified badge only. Your ID, legal name and date of birth are never shown on your profile.

Can I use a nickname?

Yes. Profiles use nicknames. Real names are not required and are never displayed.

Privacy and discretion

Who can see my photos?

You choose per photo: public, blurred until you unlock it for a member, or inside a private album. Public photos may not contain nudity.

Can I hide from people I know?

Yes. You can hide your profile from search, limit who can message you and, on Elite, browse in incognito mode so only members you choose can see you.

What shows on my card statement?

A neutral descriptor that does not mention dating, the lifestyle or the Sinners name.

Do you sell my data?

No. We do not sell or share profiles, photos or messages with advertisers. See the Privacy policy for the full picture.

Matching and messages

What is a boundary match?

Each profile lists what it is into and what is off the table, such as soft swap, full swap, same room, threesome or just watching. Before you send the first message, Sinners shows where your boundaries overlap.

Can single men message couples?

Single men can message anyone whose settings allow it. Couples and women decide whether single men, unverified members or anyone outside their distance can contact them.

How do I find a third?

Set your profile to looking for a threesome, filter by profile type and boundaries, and read our guide on how to find a third. Couples use the threesome app features most.

What happens when I report someone?

The report is reviewed and the member can be warned, restricted or removed. You can block them at once, which hides you from each other completely.

Events and travel

How do events work?

Hosts and clubs list events with a date, area, dress code and house rules. You RSVP from the app, the host approves the guest list, and every guest on it is age and identity verified.

Can I meet people before a trip?

Yes. Travel mode lets you set Las Vegas, New York, Miami or another city before you go. Elite members can be in 3 cities at once.

I run parties. How do I list them?

Choose the Host plan. Read how hosting works.

Membership and cost

How much does Sinners cost?

Member is 39 USD per month, Couples 59 USD, Elite 99 USD and Host 199 USD. Yearly billing is half the price on every plan. Full details are on the pricing page.

Can I try it before paying?

Yes. Build your profile preview on the home page at no cost and without signing up. The membership itself is paid only, which keeps fake profiles out.

How do I cancel?

Cancel renewal from your account settings at any time. Your access stays until the end of the paid period.

Can I get a refund?

Payments are final. We only refund a double charge, a charge you did not authorize or a full outage of the service, as set out in the Terms.

Rules

What is not allowed?

Paid sexual services, escorting, solicitation, trafficking, any contact with or content of minors, fake identities, harassment and nudity in public photos. Breaking these rules ends the account. Read the community guidelines.

Is Sinners a porn site?

No. Sinners is a dating and events platform for adults. There are no videos or paid content, and public areas carry no nudity.

Still curious?

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Questions we did not cover? Write to support@sinners.net.

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